I was talking with a group of ladies the other day and we were asked if we ever wonder what people say about us when we are not around or what they think about us in their heads? We all answered “yes.” Isn’t it interesting how other people’s opinions, perceptions, thoughts, feelings—all of that internal stuff—can come to matter so much to us? The degree to which it matters may vary, but many of us carry around this burden of insecurity more often than we care to. Does any of this sound Continue Reading
He Changed My “Want To”
Hey, remember your first heartbreak? I do! I was hurt and could not imagine what my life was about to be like without this guy in it! We had been together for so long and our lives were so intertwined that weaving him out was going to be complicated. I could not conceive ever feeling happy or content again! My desire to be in a relationship was so strong that the thought of not having one was actually painful—emotionally and physically (my head and stomach hurt, for real). Now, several years Continue Reading